Hi,
some time in life we just get in very weird condition's, i wish that no one ever feel that kinda situations, i m gonna write some most difficult moment of my thinking, mostly i didn't face but i am always scared to face them. what i explain here is the thinking of man on that particular timing ( all is according to me) it may be differ from person to person. i post various conditions time by time, first one is on ur table.
(1) => when someone is dying infront of you .in oldage not in young.
on this time person sit around the consious or unconsious person, having his/her hand in his own hand, trying to talk to him/her, by keeping in mind that this will be the last talk ever, by relizing that after sevral moment you never see any movemnt in this body , never hear any word in that voice, never hold this hand again, never tell him/her that you love him/her, in this moment u know he/she gonna die, but even then u keep saying that all will be fine, all be normal again, and your right too, in few time (some days) all become normal, just one person not here to see them.
you must think that this dying person struggle all his life, for something, some for money some for love, some for family, all struggle, ....and now his/her struggle start again , he/she is fighting to death till the death won, every passing second give different experiance.
some time ppl start waiting for his/her death, few coz of mercy and most coz they didnt have time to speant on a dying person, i cant explain the mental condition of them, why ppl forget that this time come to everyone.the biggest truth in the world is death, all die one day, no one can change, even then we not learn from other's death.
death is never called good but in today's time it give relaxation, life is too full of tentions that everyone face small death everyday.
i dunno what the dying person think, but he/she might be full of love with everyone, or full of sorrow of the time he waste in his life, may be all life cross infront of his/her eyes like a movie, may be they miss the time when they be really happy, i dunno what they think, but onething for sure they perpare there self for it, second by second they start getting strong for it.
i didnt have any word for this situation but i salute all the ppl who serve their children and make them stand on thier feet, i feel them a very sucessfull person in their life, no matter if they did not up-to-mark. but i respect them.
